Someone told me, it is not what you do in office that will significantly differentiate you and your collegue.
But it is what you do after the you thumb print out after the office hour that matters.
Just by analyzing how we are spending 2.8 hour a day after works. Whether that was used for entertaining. Or for our own growth.
Be it either personal development or skills or thinking.
We decide how that small daily timeslot is allocated.
Is not our boss behavior or our superior behavior or our partner behavior that disturb us the most. But it is how our inability to respond wisely to those ‘disturbance’ are most disturbing.
Reaction tend to be promptly without thinking.
While responding is well thought action.
Eventhough the external factor is the same.