I remember once upon a time ago , I’d asked my late father on how to raise a son.
He said it may varied and a lot of method can be used.
Either want to use fullset of corporal punishment as teaching method is solely up to the father.
Or, rather let everything loose without control and letting whoever else taking over
the casting in family.
So, he shared his opinion..
“raising a kid / son / daughter is splitted into three part of their life/age.”
.. well, it had three phase. “1st 7 years , 2nd 7 years , 3rd years..”
which is age :
0-7 years .. – first 7years
8-14 years.. – 2nd 7years.
15 – 21 years.. – 3rd 7years.
First 7 years , you become as his/her toys.
Play with him/her as much as possible.
Encourage him to learn..
Talk to him as much as possible too.
2nd 7 years, you become as his/her teacher/guidance ..
Allow no repeating mistake, do not compromise on the key thing.
Before punishing him, make sure he know what is the cause he is being punished.
Allow him to learn what is wrong and what is right.
Guide him well, answer him well whenever he raise a question.
Encourage him to learn more and understand what he is doing now will affect his own future.
Make him know Allah,and he will know himself well.
3rd 7 years, you become as his/her friend..
He may share thing , complaint about thing he see..
Encourage him to share his thought, guide him whenever possible.
Or at least let him learn how to choose the right path by his own.
At this point of time , no point of scolding him for whatever he does,
he should already learn how to bear the consequences of his own action.
then he add.. the 7 years gap may be varied between kid,
some achive next level faster than the others and some might be need more time.
Observe well and you should know where to move..
as because he is your son.. pretty much you can know his interest as time goes on.
then after that , it is already up to him/her..
he may come back to you if you trained him well..
But pretty much it is up to him/her by then..
Life is short.. live with it.
anything to add ? please share them below :)
p/s : Because he is the choosen one, out of how many million sperm..
he is the only one who succeed to get to ovum and penetrated it..
surely there are also a lot of capabilities come together with him.
Bumped onto one nice song this morning.
Trying to catch the Dhuha time’s .. :)
Doa Dhuha
Album : Hijrah
Munsyid : UNIC
1e-9puhEZ-I
Ya Allah sesungguhnya waktu dhuha itu dhuha-Mu
Kecantikannya kecantikan-Mu…Keindahannya keindahan-Mu
Kekuatannya kekuatan-Mu…Kekuasaannya kekuasaan-Mu
Perlindungannya perlindungan-Mu…
Ya Allah jika rezeki masih di langit, turunkanlah
Jika di bumi keluarkanlah…Jika sukar permudahkanlah
Jika haram sucikanlah…Jika jauh dekatkanlah
Berkat waktu dhuha
Kecantikan-Mu keindahan-Mu kekuatan-Mu kekuasaan-Mu
Limpahkan kepadaku segala yang Engkau telah limpahkan kepada
hamba-hamba-Mu yang soleh Continue reading this post…
Let’s say somehow client want the webservices to be hosted at the different port of default *:80.
Just add the following :
into /etc/httpd/conf/httpd.conf
There are times at certain environment that the supposed to be fixed IP Address
of the shared storage have to change.
Althought ,am having difficulties to contemplate the reality that it actually changed twice!
so, from the earlier on, the factory setting is something like 192.168.0.1/24
then goes to another set of “fixed” IP Address.
And now the third round of this..
the result, whenever this one changed.. all the client trying to attach to this
particular iSCSI storage, it need to probe for new IP.
And as past IP setting .. it was saying “portal unreachable”..
in this case only one out of two setting is up.
resulting a failure in status.. the storage not mounted..
[root@node1~]# /etc/init.d/iscsi restart
Stopping iSCSI daemon:
iscsid dead but pid file exists [ OK ]
Starting iSCSI daemon: [ OK ][ OK ]
Setting up iSCSI targets: Logging in to [iface: default, target: iqn.2004-08.jp.buffalo:LOMBOK-DB-001D7326325B:array1, portal: 192.168.1.145,3260]
Login to [iface: default, target: iqn.2004-08.jp.buffalo:LOMBOK-DB-001D7326325B:array1, portal: 192.168.1.145,3260]: successful
Logging in to [iface: default, target: iqn.2004-08.jp.buffalo:LOMBOK-DB-001D7326325B:array1, portal: 192.198.1.148,3260]
Login to [iface: default, target: iqn.2004-08.jp.buffalo:LOMBOK-DB-001D7326325B:array1, portal: 192.198.1.148,3260]: failure
[ FAILED ]
[root@node1~]# /etc/init.d/iscsi restart
Stopping iSCSI daemon:
iscsid dead but pid file exists [ OK ]
Starting iSCSI daemon: [ OK ]
[ OK ]
Setting up iSCSI targets: Logging in to [iface: default, target: iqn.2004-08.jp.buffalo:LOMBOK-DB-001D7326325B:array1, portal: 192.168.1.145,3260]
Login to [iface: default, target: iqn.2004-08.jp.buffalo:LOMBOK-DB-001D7326325B:array1, portal: 192.168.1.145,3260]: successful
Logging in to [iface: default, target: iqn.2004-08.jp.buffalo:LOMBOK-DB-001D7326325B:array1, portal: 192.198.1.148,3260]
Login to [iface: default, target: iqn.2004-08.jp.buffalo:LOMBOK-DB-001D7326325B:array1, portal: 192.198.1.148,3260]: failure
[ FAILED ]
so, the question.. how to remove those invalid target ?
Here is how to delete old target.
replace the ip with the old IP setting.
which later can be used by cluster suite to mount /dev/usbhd1 to something like /data
which is transparent/similar on both nodes regardless it had the USB drive/dongle or anything connected to its
system at the same time.
To setup Virtual FTP server using pure-ftpd in CentOS is as below :
1. Download the packages.
Assuming you already had rpmforge repo enable in your yum.conf.d
yum install pure-ftpd pure-ftpd-selinux -y
yum install pure-ftpd pure-ftpd-selinux -y
2. Add the a valid user to behave / mapped as the virtual user.
need only one.
#useradd ftpuser -d/opt/ftp_users
#useradd ftpuser -d /opt/ftp_users
2. then edit the config file /etc/pure-ftpd/pure-ftpd.conf