One suggestion to let go something that is past.

However, I found myself, sometimes there are beyond that what it seem for others.

Most of advices that your heard today is not necessary correct one for you..
Some are just a mere talk or in other word , just rubbish talk.

When something for you to think and decide..
Let it be YOU think and then decide.
doesn’t matter how long it would take..

.. as at the end, it is YOUR decision.. not OTHERS.

Morale of the story :
whatever advice / input .. think first…

live within your mean..

p/s : ..” I think, therefore am dangerous.” – Unknown

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