There is one story being spinning in my mind since past few days. I can’t remember getting this story from which source, either book or somewhere online but here is the story.
One day, in a small village, there is a father and his two sons, they have farm with goat.
Everyday they’re selling goat to the villager or whoever is willing to buy its product including milk and meat.
The business is good and growing fast.
His sons are both involve in the company as worker.
Both of them has been helping him since the beginning, and both are capable of running the business.
Until one day, he his health is failing, and he need to pass over the business to his son.
He decide to pass this company to his second son.
So, he called his elder son.
“Son, I have decided to give control of this company to your younger brother.”
The elder brother was furious and ask “Ok, but I want to know why you decided to give to him instead of me.” Continue reading this post…
I bought this book about 2-months ago, and it took me a while to finish reading it.
Here is my take on the content presented by Simon in his book “Leaders eat last”.
There are 4 main chemicals highlighted in defining what have crucial impact on our social behavior and emotional state.
According to Simon, there are four primary chemicals in our body that contribute to all our positive feelings that we generically known as “happy”:
endorphins
dopamine
serotonin
oxytoxin
At which endorphins and Dopamine make us to perseverance, find food foods, build shelters, invent tools, drive forward and get thing done.
While Serotonin allow us to work together, develop the feeling of trust and loyalty, help strengthen our social bond, work together and cooperates.
All four are essential to be balanced, so that we can ultimately SURVIVE and ENSURE our legacy will LIVE on beyond us.
Have you ever experience of the feeling that feels good when you had put in a lot of effort to accomplish something.
That is the proof that there is no biological incentive to do nothing.
Simon went on explaining all above chemicals and its effect in very great details in this book.
And also put into readers perspective why it is important to us as leaders, as a father or mother of growing kids. Continue reading this post…
Last few week I’ve been wondering how to achieve thing faster than before.
So, I enrolled into Lazada Affiliate Program with the goal to get some passive income stream outside of may daily work.
I managed to get myself invited to the launch of Lazada Online Revolution campaign at Pullman Hotel. Continue reading this post…
If there is only one thing I can learn from Richard Branson.
It would be “Always cover the bottom line”.
It is a pre-planned exit being put in place,
or at least being thought of earlier,
should the ideal plan goes south for whatever reason.
In his example, should his first flight booking is not able to secure enough passenger to fit the first aircraft he is about to rent.
The deal is OFF, and would NOT need be paying anything at all.
So,no matter how ambitious you’re..
If you’re not able to cover the bottom line you’re pretty much screwed up. If anything, there is always risk, what matters is how do we plan to mitigate them.
The bottom line is what I need to be able to at least fulfil its requirement regardless of how bad the situation turn out to be.
The example is pretty much as simple as being able to pay for the monthly expense for the family while you’re chasing your own dream.
Having said that, I was somehow ended up in a situation where I was stuck between getting enough of traction for business growth and withdrawing enough money from it to support my own monthly expense.
Then at some point, being me, plan and sequencing things maybe not my best trait after all.
I’ve met with multiple occasions of chicken and eggs problem.
For example:
in order to get the government sponsored education fund:”MyBrain” to pay for my master degree course.
At first I needed to get in and enrolled the course first.
However, to get enrolled into the course successfully,
I need to pay the entrance fee for certain minimum amount.
So, being stuck in that situation, I call for a help from my friend and get it solved pretty much quickly.
It can be put as just one call away.
Simple? yes. would I like to do it again? no.
Why on earth did I get myself into such situation in the first place?
still pondering upon this. haha
To get the business network up and running.
First you have to gain some reputation before it can provide return with some meaningful output.
In order to do that, you’ll have to burn some resource to get into the position where it command the right amount of “influence” to buy whatever you’re selling.
And that require some resource be ready to be spent at first.
However, the tricky part is getting to that level without first being burn-out too quickly. Or avoid being getting too depth of debt while doing it.
again.. “always cover the bottom line” also useful when you’re trying to venture into the new opportunities. Where it might not claim as easy as it seem. You also need to know when to stop and when it is time to keep on going.
As long as the bottom line is covered, you’re will have ONE less thing to worry about. And I think that alone will be able keep you from a LOT of sleepless night away.
p/s : try re-reading this again in next few years to understand why am writing this.
Let’s say you have some server running around the world.
I bet most of it doesn’t really need an GUI to be running all the time.
The least you may need is only a terminal access to it.
Which is sufficient if it is running at runlevel 3.
Here is how you can specify the default runlevel on the CentOS server.
It may save some resource during runtime.
In CentOS default runlevel can be set by editing /etc/inittab
The list of runlevel is as below:
# Default runlevel. The runlevels used by RHS are:# 0 - halt (Do NOT set initdefault to this)# 1 - Single user mode# 2 - Multiuser, without NFS (The same as 3, if you do not have networking)# 3 - Full multiuser mode# 4 - unused# 5 - X11# 6 - reboot (Do NOT set initdefault to this)#
id:3:initdefault:
# Default runlevel. The runlevels used by RHS are:
# 0 - halt (Do NOT set initdefault to this)
# 1 - Single user mode
# 2 - Multiuser, without NFS (The same as 3, if you do not have networking)
# 3 - Full multiuser mode
# 4 - unused
# 5 - X11
# 6 - reboot (Do NOT set initdefault to this)
#
id:3:initdefault:
Just ensure not to set it to runlevel 6 or 0. Otherwise it would be in rebooting or just halt endlessly.
When there is 99 things goes wrong, we tend to think we’re doomed. Haha. That’s what happened most of the time.
#AnakAnakMalaysia
However, my recent event regarding the above make me think otherwise. Eventhough things seem to be upside down, there are all with different priorities. As long as it’s not the most crucial or possibly fatal if fail. it’s gonna be alright anyway. Why?
Let me tell you an example.
let’s say here is the list of things that goes wrong for the day :
house messed up
laundry not done
dishwasher not working
washing machine cable got eatean by mice.
train having technical problem
late to arrive to the office.
kids throwing tantrums
car cannot even start
servers are having error codes that yet to be solved
..
and compared to one thing got right:
baby sitter called said baby is doing OK.
so, perspective wise , our perception of things goes wrong may have been thrown out of balance if the above is reversed.
That’s being said, I guess there are way too many reasons to be grateful instead of being the opposite.
Let’s say we want to reach somewhere at point Z.
And our current location is at A.
Somehow we first must get ourself to point B, then C,D,E,F
and eventually final step, getting from point Y to Z.
If we know we have about 5 years to reach point Z,
would it be reasonable to stuck at being getting from A to B for more than 3.5years. ?
The point is, whatever you plan as your main destination.
Just focus on getting to the next point at one time.
The whole route may be different from one and another.
It may also seem unreachable at one point.
But,what we can do is to focus all our energy on the very next first step.
Eventually we will get moving and stay motivated.
Thus bring us closer to our destination.
I was reminded by someone of the following:
“Mostly of what most people know is not worth knowing.”
Focus on what we values most and filter out the rest.
Just don’t waste our life, our energy, our resources fighting and arguing on trivial matter.
Most of the stuff that matters, are being ignored by most of people.
Be different.